Monday, November 17, 2008

Loss

I now truly know the meaning of the statement when it rains it pours.  Thursday I got a phone call telling me my grandpa had passed away.  He was old and in pain,  so I had to tell myself it was for the best.  On Saturday I got a phone call telling me my sister Tricia had passed away.  I feel sick to my stomach when I think about it.  She was 35 years old and had so much life to live.  I have never had death so close to me and I am not sure how to handle it. I have been having a hard time telling people, so this is my way of telling those people that I should have told but didn't.   I just want to thank everyone who has reached out and helped me and my family.  I can't believe how kind people are to lend a helping hand.  We have gotten so many offers of help we could never possibly use it all.  Every moment of life is worth a celebration, so instead of mourning their life lost I think I would rather celebrate their life lived.   

28 comments:

Kelsey said...

So sorry Meg! Sometimes it's nice to know people hear (or read) your pain...

April said...

Megan, I am truly very sorry for your losses. I hope that you're able to find some comfort and peace in knowing that these loved ones are in a better place. You'll be in my prayers. Sorry again.

Pyper said...

I'm soo sorry for your double loss. That is really hard that it happened so close. Death is never easy to deal with. It will get better.

The Walkers said...

Megan I am truly sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Death is really hard to deal with and I hope you can find some comfort along the way and can deal with it a little better. I again am sorry for your loss.

Brock and Arrienne said...

You have been in my thoughts and prayers the past few days. I love you and I am so sorry for your families loss. I hope you can take comfort in the Plan of Salvation and knowing that your loss will be made up one day. Let me know if there is anyting at all that I can do for you.

Simkins said...

Megan,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your family members! It's never an easy thing to deal with and if there is anything Justin and I can do you know we would love to help out in any way!

Brittney said...

I hope you can find comfort in prayer and feel the love of God that will probably make you a stronger and better person after going through such hard trials. I know oftentimes the homes of the mourning are a more comforting place than anywhere else since the Spirit is there so strongly. I hope you can feel that comfort in your home. It's a good reminder to us all to live every day to the fullest and to give more of ourselves to others.

ThE fRoNkS!... said...

Megan, I am so sorry. I can't believe it. Nothing I can say will make it any easier, but I just want to tell you how much I love you. You will be in my prayers. As will your family. You are strong enough to handle this. I always think, You gotta take it as a compliment if Heavenly Father thinks you can handle it, he knows you are strong enough. Again I am so sorry, I love you.If I can do ANYTHINg please let me know.

Derek and Erica said...

Meg! Just wanted you to know that I'm thinking about you! Seriously let me know if I can do anything to help you out in anyway... Hang in there :)

Sharli said...

Megan, I am truly sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in our prayers. Please let me know if there is anything I can do..

Dustin, Joni & Brighton said...

Ty and Meg,
I completely understand how you are feeling. I had never really dealt with a death close, and then we lost Dustin's grandpa and my uncle. It is a bit of a shocker. I want you to know that we love you and we are here if you need anything! Even an understanding ear. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at the difficult time!

All our Love,
Dustin and Joni

Dave & Shauna said...

Megan, I'm so sorry for your loss as well. I hope that the knowledge that we have of life after death gives you some comfort to get through this hard time. Let me know if there is anything I can do.

-Shauna

Sean and Hollee said...

I just wanted to let you know that I have been thinking of you and your family. I hope to let you know that you all are in our thoughts and prayers. Loosing someone is hard but I hope you can be at peace knowing that you will see them again someday. Love you Meg's. Always remember i'm here for you.

BrianFam said...

Meg, I can't believe this, you are always so good to put on a smile and be happy no matter what. That is one of the many things I love about you. Im sorry that i didn't know about this last night at our game. I can't imagine how you are feeling. All I can say is that I am so sorry that you and your family are having to deal with all of this at once. We love you and hope that you can find comfort in this tragic time. Love you.

Jena Hendry said...

We love you Meg! Let us know if there is anything we can do.

Kami @ Sweet Charli... said...

Meg like Karah said, you are always so happy go lucky! I have been thinking about you and your fam. Let us know if there is anything we can do! Love ya!

Jeff and Susan said...

I love ya Meg! We will keep your family in our prayers

Shay said...

I am very sorry Meg. Please let me know if there is anything I can do. I will keep you in my prayers.

Alaina said...

Megan, I am Pyper's Aunt and my name is Alaina Neumeyer. My husband, Ryan, is a long time friend of your family and especially your brother John. I am truly sorry about your loss. Let your family know that if there is anything that we can do, please don't hesitate to let us know.

Adam and Ashley said...

Hey Megan,
I hate to hear things like this because nothing that is said can ever take the pain away. I felt so bad when Hollee told me about your grandpa and your car. Then yesterday I heard about your sister. Meg we are thinking about you.

Kari said...

I've never had any one real close to me die either, now you have and I can't imagine dealing with it. I hope you're doing ok! I love the end of your post, did you make that up? People should quote you on that. what a beautiful saying.

*NaTaLiE SaNdaLL* said...

Megan, we are so sorry for your loss. I hope you are doing ok, it sounds like you are looking at things the right way, good luck with everything:o)

MaddeeShaw said...

love you meggy

Heidi said...

I am so sorry about the loss of your family members! It is nice knowing the knowledge of life after death! Our thoughts and prayers are with your family!

carnahan fam said...

Meg...Ben and I just love you and I hope you are doing okay. I can't EVEN imagine any of this happening :( Please please let us know if we can do anything at all! You are such a sweetheart and we are thinking of you.

Love ya.

moellendorf family said...

meg imm so so sorry, if you need anything let me know, well keep you in your prayers

Carissa said...

Meg- Ty and I both feel really bad that we couldn't be there last week. Really bad. We are coming home soon and looking forward to spending time with you and all the family through the holidays,
:: lots of hugs ::

Candace Thomas said...

Megs...I am so sorry. I just want you to know I have been thinking of you. LOVE YOU!